How Do You Position Yourself for the Joke?

     Concluding everything I said, you reach a stand point where you make yourself ready ... Now I dont know, how naturally funny people make it, because I have never been like that ! But I learnt to position myself internally to generate it, in a way , I have determined a frequency of state of mind and it worked !

     Remember, our basis was to transcend the emotion and logic:  All the time in our lives, we are entangled to our emotion and logic..that might create a certain amount of drama, either you can stay at the level of the drama and lost in that pshycological mess, or you learn to distance yourself from all and make fun of them. The more you learn to distance yourself, the more jokes will be obvious to you.

    Let s start with an example:

    If you watch closely, there is a pattern how most people talk, generally, currently they are in the line of emotion and logic, entangled very well around their ego. Ego, here, does not neccesarily mean being selfish and proud of themselves, it can be simply protection of their basic existence, honest character... So look at how a mother is talking about her husband s family, you already smell the drama here. Her brother in law accusing her visiting their village only when the harvest of the corn field time arrives. She talks about it in an offended way, it is not true, how come he can say that etc... This is basic reaction, getting lost in the pshycological drama but there is an upper and uplifting reaction also for everyone in this picture= Making fun of it.

     By being offended, getting angry she is no good for herself neither for the rest of the family, you dont want to see your mother getting affected , influenced badly, you want to see her overcoming, cheerful etc. You dont want drama between your spouse and your family...But if you were to take everything dramatically, this can happen very often. Not good for noone,

    Here the joke is, the son says to his mother : Then why did not you say, when would I come to villiage other than the harvest time.. Of course, that s the best time. Everyone laughs, she laughs, feels great. If you can wire your brain in such a way, most of the dramatic events would not happen.

    The technique of the joke here, whenever there is a false accusation and you are not that, instead of getting offended, make fun of it... Remeber what we say, comedy is against emotion and logic and things go from positive to negative.... Here own the negative, of course, she is doing the selfish behaviour, and everyone will laugh.

    Everyone will laugh, especially, there is a seroius, offensive, aggresive atmosphere....You transcend it where it most needed and there is a sudden relief from the grip of duality and the drama might be dragged from it.

   You always position yourself in a way , to ready to rise beyond your emotions and logic, not taking them very seriously to begin with, inside, teach yourself how you can abondan them and react as making fun of all.